Your mindset is the key to finding love. It sets the tone for how you look at life, how you react to things that happen to you, and how successful you are in all endeavors. This is true when it comes to tackling the dating world head-on, especially as a woman over 40 who is determined to find a man who compliments her well-established life.

Learn from your Experiences

Your mindset is the way your brain processes and reprocesses information, experiences, and events in your life. Because of the inherent need to process things that have happened to you, there is a deep emotional connection formed between your mindset and the way you feel about the experiences of your past, present, and future. The lens through which you view your experiences shapes your entire being. Instead of looking at challenging situations as roadblocks or limitations, view them as an opportunity to grow and learn.

Your mindset defines who you are to yourself

Have you ever felt that nagging sense of self-doubt or questioned your own strength or abilities? You’re not alone. We all have at one point or another. Our mindset is what can make us feel less-than in situations that are foreign or new to us.

Changing up your thinking and actions can have a positive impact on your mind while boosting your self-love meter. If you’re struggling with self-doubt consider incorporating positive, life-affirming activities into your daily routine, such as daily affirmations and a healthy self-care regimen. Make sure to surround yourself with people and things that boost your self-confidence regularly. Avoid toxic relationships and situations that can play a critical role in your overall mental health and mindset.

Women who find love believe they can

Your mindset sets the tone for your love life. Women who believe they deserve love take consistent action and don’t give up, even when times are tough. Although dating can feel overwhelming and frustrating, it’s not impossible to date and find love! We’ve all been through things that make us question our self-worth and our own ability to love ourselves and others, right? The difference between finding love and swearing it off for eternity is your mindset. Today… right now… is the time to believe that you will find love and not give up until you achieve it. If you believe it, you will achieve it.

Enjoy the journey

You are looking for a soulmate so that you two can ultimately relish life together. Then why not do your best to enjoy the journey that is bringing you to him?

When you’re scrolling through profiles, instead of looking for “the one,” look for a potential coffee date. Instead of peppering him with a list of questions to determine if he is marriage material, enjoy the moment and be present in his presence. Avoid running your hardest to reach the finish line and enjoy the journey through every stage of the process. Understanding that your goals are within reach will have a positive impact on your mindset. Trust the process and also know that the road to finding a great guy and creating a loving relationship takes determination, and most of all, patience. Stay committed to your purpose without overshadowing your goal by rushing through things.

Never take rejection personally 

A positive mindset sets you up for success allowing you not to take rejection personally. Not everyone is meant for you. You can’t expect to fall in love with your soulmate on every date you agree to and there is beauty in that.

Just because your date doesn’t think you’re a good fit for him doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. The opposite is similarly true. Instead of taking rejection as a personal punch to the gut, think of it as a way to clear the path before you. Every rejection leads you closer to finding the man who is meant for you. Never take rejection as a way to dive back into self-doubt. Instead, use it as an opportunity to celebrate who you are unapologetically.

Dating can be tough. But with a positive mindset, you will find the man of your dreams. Use this year as a time to rid yourself of any lingering self-doubt and move forward with faith in your abilities and in yourself as a whole.  You are a complete and beautiful woman just as you are! Embrace a positive mindset and go out and discover all that is meant for you.

If you’re all about mastering a positive mindset, but unsure where to begin or need an extra boost of confidence to get started, book a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call today.