So, this year has been full of change and uncertainty. It’s now July and you many have given up on 2020 being your year for love.
Have you resigned yourself to spending the rest of the year home alone in your sweatpants? It certainly has been a challenging year for dating and you wouldn’t be alone in feeling this way.
Are you using external circumstances like the pandemic as an excuse as to why you can’t find love?
So, this year has not been ideal, but honestly ladies, it’s time to STOP! Stop making excuses as to why you can’t get online and date.
I mean, sure...right now we’re dealing with this virus, which has made dating a bit more challenging and YES, you still can attract the man of your dreams. There’s always going to be something that’s going to pull your attention away and guarantee that you provide excuses, whether it’s work, kids or something else. If you want to attract a high-quality man then you need to make dating a priority! If you’re stuck here are some things you can do:
Give Yourself the Gift of Time
It’s times like these that allow you to truly live every moment of your life from the inside out. It is a time to focus on learning to love yourself and feeling comfortable in your own skin. Time is something you really found yourself without in the past and time allows you to prepare yourself for what’s next.
There is a difference between giving yourself time and doing nothing at all. You may find yourself discovering a new hobby and you can use this as an opportunity to see if there is compatibility with your date. Does he show any interest in the same things that are important to you?
Overcoming Loneliness by Keeping Perspective
Being in quarantine is a way to teach yourself to be grateful and appreciative of what you do have and focus on what you really want. Feeling lonely? It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and not try to avoid them.
An important aspect of overcoming loneliness is to stay connected. Stay connected to friends, loved ones , and yes, even a potential love interest. Join a virtual Meetup Group.
Take an online class or plan a virtual hangout or cocktail party with your girlfriends. Words with Friends? Playing games online could also be fun with a date.
Confidence can be the key to Success
If you are looking to begin dating again, it’s important to build up your confidence so that you attract the kind of man you are seeking. Think about it, when you are around someone who is confident, by proxy, you feel confident as well. If you have taken the time to work on yourself and you’re able to stay connected to your values, then it will be that much easier to discover what you desire in a partner.
Confidence comes from knowing who you and what you have to offer. I have my clients keep a running list of all their positive attributes, i.e. I’m kind, I’m patient… Then post this list somewhere visible in your house, possibly on your bathroom mirror. Be sure to read your list out loud at least twice a day.
Learning Self Care
As I have discussed already, the quarantine has given you time to focus on yourself and your own needs. By doing this, you are paving your way to increasing your confidence. So start with how you want to spend your days and nights making yourself happy right now. Try something new. Work out at home, take a walk, swim, meditate, draw, or learn to paint. Whatever you want to do to take care of YOU! Learn to quiet your inner critic. Examine why you think or feel the way you do about yourself and then replace the negative with positive, loving thoughts. It is important to take the time, as much as is needed, to heal, trust, love, and forgive yourself before you choose to love again.
Take Care of Yourself and Take Action
Now is the perfect time to get your house in order. I am not saying your physical house, I mean your internal one. Your mind and body need to get in order.
Maybe you need to learn some skills to improve your dating life. Do you need to learn how to flirt on a socially distanced date? Or do you want to learn how to better communicate with men? This is the perfect opportunity for you to learn new skills so you can attract higher quality men.
Start taking action now! What new skills are you committed to learning and what 3 measurable steps are you willing to take to get you closer to attracting the man of your dreams?
Are Your Sacrifices Worth It?
Once you have discovered yourself, know what you want and need , and found inner confidence in not needing approval from anyone else, you will be truly ready to find new love.
It’s important to remember that you are worthy of true love! When you are ready to forgive, find meaning in your own individual life without the need to have someone else in it, and feel confident about yourself, you will be ready. You can accept the past as lessons learned and apply those lessons in the future.
Honestly, ladies, you’ve found love before so why can’t you find it again?
Truth be told, if you want to find Love in 2020, you need to stop making excuses and start taking action today and:
- Learn how to boost your confidence
- Practice going on virtual dates
- Learn how to go on socially distanced dates
- Learn how to flirt
- Improve your communication skills with men
Where I stand, you have 2 choices...do nothing and hope that something changes OR take action, and learn some new skills so that you can attract the loving man and the relationship you've always longed for.
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