I wanted to share some exciting news! Find Real Love after 40 is proud to have been included in this Rolling Stone article, “7 Ways For Couples to Chat, Date and Get Intimate Even If They’re Quarantining Apart.”    With COVID-19, many have decided to continue dating...

There are glimpses of a more normal reality starting to surface, but honestly, there is still a long way to go.  But don’t worry!  Quick mindset shift here - you are not waiting to go back to how things were before. You will not return to the previous way of...

Time and time again women come to me to learn how to stop attracting “fake” men.  What’s a fake man, you ask? Great question! A fake man is someone who only cares about himself and his image.  At his core, he’s deeply insecure and he probably has a hard time...

:Have you ever been in a situation like this? You’ve met a great guy and started dating. You feel comfortable around each other, have fun together, and he seems interested in you. But after about a month or so, of dating, things start to change. His calls and text...

One of the biggest anxieties of dating is what to do on a first date with someone new. And with good reason! I remember helping my client Monica, with this same feeling.  She felt overwhelmed and stuck. After using my first date suggestions she felt more...

The holiday season is just around the corner, and while it’s a time of joy and anticipation, it can quickly shift to dread, fear and loneliness for single women over 40.  It also influences dating choices this time of year. It’s known as “cuffing season” in the...