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Tips on How to Trust Again

Tips on How to Trust Again

Few of us get through life without feeling betrayed by someone, while some are handed the lion’s share. Heartache is painful. That’s why it’s called heartache. It can last for months or years and keep us shut down and wounded, making it nearly impossible to recover....

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My Advice is in a Rolling Stone Article

My Advice is in a Rolling Stone Article

 I wanted to share some exciting news! Find Real Love after 40 is proud to have been included in this Rolling Stone article, “7 Ways For Couples to Chat, Date and Get Intimate Even If They’re Quarantining Apart.”    With COVID-19, many have decided to continue dating...

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Making Time for Dating: Even During These Crazy Times

Making Time for Dating: Even During These Crazy Times

There are glimpses of a more normal reality starting to surface, but honestly, there is still a long way to go.  But don’t worry!  Quick mindset shift here - you are not waiting to go back to how things were before. You will not return to the previous way of...

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Top 5 Ways to Spot a Fake Man

Top 5 Ways to Spot a Fake Man

Time and time again women come to me to learn how to stop attracting “fake” men.  What’s a fake man, you ask? Great question! A fake man is someone who only cares about himself and his image.  At his core, he’s deeply insecure and he probably has a hard time...

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How to Recognize an Emotionally Unavailable Man

How to Recognize an Emotionally Unavailable Man

:Have you ever been in a situation like this? You’ve met a great guy and started dating. You feel comfortable around each other, have fun together, and he seems interested in you. But after about a month or so, of dating, things start to change. His calls and text...

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How To Plan For Your First Date?

How To Plan For Your First Date?

One of the biggest anxieties of dating is what to do on a first date with someone new. And with good reason! I remember helping my client Monica, with this same feeling.  She felt overwhelmed and stuck. After using my first date suggestions she felt more...

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3 Tips to Help Single Women Survive the Holiday Season

3 Tips to Help Single Women Survive the Holiday Season

The holiday season is just around the corner, and while it’s a time of joy and anticipation, it can quickly shift to dread, fear and loneliness for single women over 40.  It also influences dating choices this time of year. It’s known as “cuffing season” in the...

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