How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Dating and Relationship Coach?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story,” that brought me to where I am today – coaching women like you on exactly what to do to skyrocket your confidence and attract your soulmate. That defining moment in my life happened in 2007.
I realized I had developed unhealthy relationship patterns and I was tired of being in unfulfilling and unsatisfying relationships.
I had a life pattern of being heartbroken. In my adult life, I had a history of picking unavailable men. I had to learn how to continually recover from heartbreak and disappointment, yet I didn’t. I kept attracting men who couldn’t communicate and were not available. Instead of processing my feelings of disappointment and loss, I internalized them and I created the false beliefs that “I’m not deserving” and that “all men will leave me.” I made an unconscious pact with myself never to be hurt like this again, however it didn’t work.
I continued to get hurt over and over again.
I continued to get hurt over and over again. This showed up in the men I dated and how I felt about myself. I put up walls and didn’t allow any man to get close to me. When I did meet a quality man, I found fault with him and become hyper critical, then in turn he would break up with me.
I made excuses for why these men weren’t good enough for me. The problem wasn’t the men, it was me. Additionally, I chose men who were emotionally unavailable as a way to collect evidence to support my limiting beliefs. When these relationships ended I concluded that it was “his fault” he that he didn’t have all of the qualities I was looking for, when in reality I believed that I wasn’t worthy of being in a loving relationship. I would also twist myself into a pretzel, and put my partner’s needs before mine as an attempt to “make him love me.” I spent more time worrying about his needs than my own, which was exhausting! I stopped respecting myself and the men stopped respecting me as well.
I figured there had to be a way to meet the man of my dreams..I tried on-line dating, speed dating and meetups. You name it and more than likely I tried it. What I didn’t realize was that it wasn’t the app or website that was the problem, it was the energy I was putting out. I would approach each date with a check-list to see if each man could live up to my expectations
Next Steps...
To get started with skyrocketing your confidence, creating a life you love and attracting a man who is crazy about you. I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait for you to feel more confident and start attracting higher quality men and I’m honored to be the one helping you. Let’s get going!
Who are your clients?
I work with people just like you who are over 40 and looking for a long-term relationship. These women are:
- Committed to releasing old patterns and takes action
- Takes full responsibility for her own thoughts, feelings and behaviors
- Desire more confidence
- Believe that your soulmate is looking for you regardless of your circumstances
- Is hopeful about the future
- Willing to apply new tools and techniques to her dating life
What makes you different from other dating and relationship coaches?
Although we will occasionally touch upon time management and other “business coach-y” things, you have me as a confidence and dating and relationship expert and consultant. I work on the inner and outer principles for finding lasting love. I’m empathic and I have a straight-forward approach and you’ll get specific tools on how to attract higher quality men. I’m concerned with how to help you on your path to finding your soulmate/life partner. I ‘m going to help you uncover and release old blocks and develop new strategies and techniques so you can attract higher quality men now!
The Find Real Love After 40, 90-Day program was created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about letting go of old habits, accelerating their confidence and attracting higher quality men. This means no more excuses, no more beating yourself anymore with: “I too old, I’m overweight, I’m too busy, I’m too much, I’m damaged, there aren’t any good men in my city.” My program was put into place so that within a few months you will be attracting higher quality men.
I cleaned up my past…and started teaching women how to do the same. No matter your age, weight, past experiences and I know that you can have this too! I’ve worked with many private clients and taught them how to release their limiting beliefs and as their confidence increased they’re able to more easily attract the man of their dreams. I have made a commitment to the rest of my life to help women over 40 breakthrough their inner blocks, increase their self confidence and use tools to help them attract their soulmate.
Being a woman over 40 myself, I’m known to work best with other women over 40 who are committed to attracting love no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly the steps to attracting their soulmate. My client’s will tell me “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll be doing with me a crash course on everything you need to know to attract higher quality men and eventually your soulmate. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal of attracting your soulmate.
